Empowerment through music is such an amazing and important thing, especially for girls. Anteros, an indie rock band from London who formed in 2014, proved the importance of this at their show at Jimmy’s in Manchester on Sunday 4th February.
Ready to spend my, usually chilled and centred around going to bed early, Sunday night singing and dancing away to the music of Anteros, I headed to Jimmy’s in the heart of the Northen Quarter of Manchester. Anteros were playing in this venue as part of Jimmy’s Independent Venue Week gigs and, although I didn’t attend any of the other shows, I feel like this energy-filled show was the perfect way to end this celebration of live music in unique venues.
The band were really friendly, making their way on to the stage by way of the crowd, chatting and hugging members of the audience on their way there. But as soon as the music started they were transformed into something out of a music video; their performance started as soon as they stepped on to the stage.
Laura, the lead singer, especially was incredibly confident and entertaining. I was genuinely shocked at how amazing her voice sounds live and this accompanied by her energy-filled dancing made for an amazing performance. Her engagement with the audience was also really nice to see, holding her hands out to girls on the front row and putting her arms round them whilst allowing them to sing the songs together.
I turned to my friend at one point and told her ‘It’s amazing how much confidence she has, I’d never be able to get up on stage and do that!’ I’ve always admired women in bands who are so comfortable on the stage and entertain the audience effortlessly by completely allowing themselves to let loose and be who they are. Whether its Izzy from Black Honey, Rakel in Dream Wife or Wolf Alice’s Ellie Rowsell, I always feel so empowered after watching women in bands perform and Laura’s performance was no different!
Towards the end of the gig, Laura spoke directly to the audience about her experience of lacking in self-confidence throughout her life and the troubles constantly comparing herself to the girls and women around her have caused. After assuring the audience that she now accepts and loves herself for who she is, she invited all of the girls in the audience onto the stage to dance with her to ‘Bonnie’, a song she wrote with the hopes of empowering the women listening to it.
Being on the stage and dancing around with all the other girls was SO empowering. After telling my friend minutes earlier that I’d never be able to get on the stage and be myself, there I was without a care in the world ‘dancing in the middle’, as the song lyrics go.
It made me realise how important it is for musicians to empower girls of all ages, but especially young girls, to be themselves and love themselves for who they are. Laura inviting us up on stage on Sunday night might have made even one girl realise that being in a band or creating music is what she what she really wants to do. Or made another girl who was feeling bad about herself regain confidence and feel empowered. It certainly kickstarted my week in a really positive way.
This encouragement is also vital within the indie/rock music scene, a scene that is dominated by male artists. Young girls who are just getting into this type of music and go straight for the ‘big bands’ will find themselves with little other choice than to listen to music by white male artists, providing them with little to look up to in terms of relatable role models. And although most of the music I listen to is by female-led indie/alternative/rock bands, most/all of them do not get the attention they deserve. This is a problem throughout the entirety of the music industry, as illustrated by some of this years festival line ups that are lacking completely in all aspects diversity (read our post on the Wireless line up here) and one that will not be solved overnight. However empowering girls and women to ‘pick up a guitar’ (as the saying goes), start a band or even just get involved with the music industry is such an important step in moving towards a more diverse community within music and actions like Laura’s really do make all the difference.
Girls supporting girls and women supporting women is SO important. Watching Anteros play on Sunday night reminded me to always support the women in my life in whatever they’re doing and I hope the smiling faces of all the girls on the stage had this same effect on everyone else at the gig too.
If you have the chance to see Anteros live, take it! This was my first time seeing them live and I had such a fun night. The band’s interaction with each other is incredible to watch and Laura is seriously cool- her voice and overall stage presence will have you captivated from the minute the show starts.
Written by Alice Porter (@aliceporterx on Twitter.)